
Interdependence
Relationships rely on interdependence. It’s a symbiotic way in which relationships, when successful, are designed to work.
In a successful partnership, there needs to be independence with a lack of dependency.
โฃIf you go into any relationship on Earth youโll see this. Are we interdependent or is one of us is dependent on the other? Are we allowed to be our own selves while we support each other or is that support based on one being dependent upon the other?โฃ
Dependency does more damage to the relationship than most anything else.
โฃThis is a fundamental theme of all partnerships, of all relationships, not only marriage. The moment that there is dependency there is loss of identity, one has to go against their own principles because they are dependent. โฃ
๐๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ญ๐ฒ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐ข๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ง๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ฌ.
In our current society we have based a vast majority amount of relationships on dependency instead of interdependency. Just look around you and it becomes obvious. With awareness it becomes blindingly clear that the moment that there is dependency we, as humans, begin to lose our sovereignty to be who we truly are. โฃ
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We lose our power that exists in interdependency. It is in this scaling back from Self that conditioning begins to take root. โฃ
We also see this in children that are raised by controlling parents. The moment that those children reach their tweens they begin to revolt against the ones that they are reliant upon. By the time they reach their teens, if their parents have not allowed them space to truly explore who they are at their core, they act out in an effort to acclimate their independence. โฃ
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In adults this may present as depression or a deep unhappiness that creeps forward, just under the surface of a seemingly โperfectโ relationship until it burst free. Resulting in anger, frustration, bitterness and disappointment. Not knowing where, how or what went wrong.
The key to successful interactions in relationships is interdependence. We all have our unique roles to play within relationships. โฃ
โฃAnd I’ll say this next statement one more time because it bears repeating.
๐๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ญ๐ฒ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐ข๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ง๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ฌ.
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โต 33.1 โดฒ 19.1