Interdependence

Relationships rely on interdependence. It’s a symbiotic way in which relationships, when successful, are designed to work.

In a successful partnership, there needs to be independence with a lack of dependency.

โฃIf you go into any relationship on Earth youโ€™ll see this. Are we interdependent or is one of us is dependent on the other? Are we allowed to be our own selves while we support each other or is that support based on one being dependent upon the other?โฃ

Dependency does more damage to the relationship than most anything else.

โฃThis is a fundamental theme of all partnerships, of all relationships, not only marriage. The moment that there is dependency there is loss of identity, one has to go against their own principles because they are dependent. โฃ


๐“๐ซ๐ฎ๐ž ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ญ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐š ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐œ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐๐ž๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ.

In our current society we have based a vast majority amount of relationships on dependency instead of interdependency. Just look around you and it becomes obvious. With awareness it becomes blindingly clear that the moment that there is dependency we, as humans, begin to lose our sovereignty to be who we truly are. โฃ
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We lose our power that exists in interdependency. It is in this scaling back from Self that conditioning begins to take root. โฃ

We also see this in children that are raised by controlling parents. The moment that those children reach their tweens they begin to revolt against the ones that they are reliant upon. By the time they reach their teens, if their parents have not allowed them space to truly explore who they are at their core, they act out in an effort to acclimate their independence. โฃ
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In adults this may present as depression or a deep unhappiness that creeps forward, just under the surface of a seemingly โ€˜perfectโ€™ relationship until it burst free. Resulting in anger, frustration, bitterness and disappointment. Not knowing where, how or what went wrong.

The key to successful interactions in relationships is interdependence. We all have our unique roles to play within relationships. โฃ

โฃAnd I’ll say this next statement one more time because it bears repeating.


๐“๐ซ๐ฎ๐ž ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ญ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง ๐š ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐œ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐๐ž๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ.


written under the Cosmic Influence of

โต™ 33.1 โดฒ 19.1


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